(I think that was my segue into what I actually want to talk about.)
For those who know me well, they know that I'm quite the advocate for treating people the same no matter race, gender, sexual orientation, political affiliation, mental state, or religion. I have friends from everywhere. I've friends who are gay, black, Mormon, Republicans, mentally retarded (yes, in the actual sense of the word where it isn't an insult.), bisexual, Egyptian, Atheist, and so much more. I grew up in a way where I treated everyone the same, and there wasn't a prejudice against others. I am not quite sure what put me in this kind of spin this morning, but I
I'm not gay, but I certainly advocate for those who are and their rights. In every one of the fifty states in the United States, I have the right to marry whomever I desire, which is awesome for me, but totally sucks for others who don't have that right. There are five, five states that perform gay marriages: Vermont, Connecticut, Iowa, New Hampshire, and Massachusetts, and in Washington D.C. Wow. 5 states out of 50. That's 1/10 of our country. 10%. Wow. Not only that, but same-sex adoptions aren't allowed in many states, which I find absolutely heartbreaking. There really is no reason that two men or two women can't take care of and love a child as a man-woman couple can. In my opinion, and many others, a gay couple being married affects nobody else. Marriage is not only an open proclamation of love, but it also gives financial and other legal rights that should be afforded to everyone. I also strongly believe that gay couples should have the right to have children and adopt.
There have been equality revolutions forever. Women wanted to have equal rights, and for the most part, we have them. For that, I am forever grateful. I can go to college. I can vote. It's great. Blacks wanted their equality, and got it. So, answer me this: why can't gays? I don't understand how it is anyone else's business about how someone lives their life. People should be able to love who the want, where they want, how they want, no matter the consequences or risk of persecution. I want to live in a country where gays can marry. I hope that my own children will grown up in a world where everyone can get married, and nobody's persecuted. It's unjust. It's unconstitutional. In a country where we claim freedom, we sure do love to give it to only people we think should have it, not everyone. Let's stand by our word and give everyone the same freedom and rights. Our country is a lot more than red tape and ridiculous bureaucrats who don't care about the people who have wants. It's about the people's voices and our rights to use them.
No matter what, everyone deserves the same treatment and rights. It's not a privilege. It's a right. It's human decency. Let's give everyone what they deserve. If you live in a state that doesn't have same-sex marriage rights, do something about it. Don't just sit on your ass complaining; do something. There is stuff all over the internet. You can contact people and get in touch with those who want to help. Part of the whole problem is that not many people are stepping up and facing the problems. We have to face problems head on. I can email and call all I want, but it takes more than just one person, and when more than one person say something together, it gets harder and harder to block out the voices.
I understand and know that not everyone agrees with me on this topic. But I figure that if one person disagrees with me, one or more people agree, and then things will change. I may be a high schooler, but I have plans to help change our country and mindsets for the future. I am okay with people dropping me as friends or alienating me for my beliefs because I'm ready to stand up for mine. This is not an issue in which I will back down easily. I will stand up for this for as long as it's necessary, and I truly hope others do, too.
As both a gay guy and a person-with-common-sense, I very much appreciate this post. Very eloquent, very engaging, spoke a lot of sense, had a really important message. Thank you. :)
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